Because they like money too much. Over much sef, but there few good ones, who understand how good self reliance is over dependence on someone.

In my opinion as a man, I’d say it all buds down to the child’s upbringing, most ladies are given the mind set that men are meant to take care of them… That way, they don’t see any need to be independent but only dependent.

if you mean being nice like putting others first before yourself,i used to be like that till my friends turned their backs against me,i always volunteered to do things for them and at a point they almost took it […]