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Student Village Academy Forums HEALTH AND RELATIONSHIPS Dating 30 Dating App Message Openers

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      justseyi
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      Fun and Playful

      1. “If you could only eat one food for the rest of your life, what’s your pick? I’m torn between jollof rice and pizza!”
        Why it works: Food is universal, and the choice reveals personality. Plus, it’s light and easy to answer.
      2. “Okay, settle this for me: What’s the one song you’d blast at a karaoke night?”
        Why it works: Music sparks connection, and it invites a fun, low-stakes response.
      3. “If you were a superhero, what would your power be? I’m claiming the ability to nap anywhere!”
        Why it works: Playful and imaginative, it encourages creativity and humor.
      4. “What’s the weirdest food combo you’ve ever tried? I once put pineapple on egusi soup—don’t judge!”
        Why it works: Quirky and relatable, it invites storytelling and laughs.
      5. “If your life was a movie, what genre would it be, and who’s playing you?”
        Why it works: Fun way to learn about their vibe and self-perception.
      6. “What’s your go-to dance move when nobody’s watching? Show me yours, I’ll show you mine!”
        Why it works: Playful and flirty, it invites a lighthearted response.
      7. “If you could teleport to any city right now, where are you going? I’m picking Lagos for the vibes!”
        Why it works: Travel dreams spark excitement and reveal shared interests.
      8. “What’s the one app on your phone you can’t live without? No pressure, but I’m judging!”
        Why it works: Tech is a safe topic, and it hints at their daily life.
      9. “If you could swap lives with a celebrity for a day, who’s it gonna be?”
        Why it works: Fun and revealing, it opens the door to pop culture chats.
      10. “What’s your guilty pleasure TV show? Mine’s rewatching Big Brother Naija for the drama!”
        Why it works: Easy to answer and sparks a fun debate about TV tastes.

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      Thoughtful and Curious

      1. “What’s one thing you’ve always wanted to learn but haven’t yet? I’m still trying to master cooking!”
        Why it works: Shows interest in their goals and invites personal sharing.
      2. “What’s a place that totally changed how you see the world?”
        Why it works: Deep but approachable, it encourages meaningful stories.
      3. “What’s the best advice you’ve ever gotten? I’m all ears for some wisdom!”
        Why it works: Prompts reflection and shares values without being too heavy.
      4. “What’s a hobby you’re super passionate about? I might need to steal some inspo!”
        Why it works: Highlights their interests and sets up a potential bonding point.
      5. “What’s one book or movie that stuck with you long after it ended?”
        Why it works: Intellectual yet accessible, it reveals their tastes and emotions.
      6. “What’s a small moment that made you smile recently? I need some positivity!”
        Why it works: Encourages sharing happy experiences, building a warm vibe.
      7. “What’s something you’re proud of but don’t get to brag about often?”
        Why it works: Gives them a chance to shine without feeling boastful.
      8. “What’s your favorite way to unwind after a long day? I’m a fan of music and a good snack!”
        Why it works: Relatable and opens a window into their daily life.
      9. “What’s a tradition you love, family or otherwise? I’m curious about what makes you, you!”
        Why it works: Personal and cultural, it invites sharing without being intrusive.
      10. “What’s one thing you’d tell your younger self if you could? Deep thoughts welcome!”
        Why it works: Encourages vulnerability in a safe, reflective way.

      Flirty and Bold

      1. “So, what’s your secret to looking this good in your pics? Spill the tea!”
        Why it works: Flirty but playful, it compliments without being too forward.
      2. “If we were on a date right now, where would you take me? No pressure, but I’m curious!”
        Why it works: Forward and fun, it plants the idea of a date while learning their style.
      3. “What’s the one thing you’d bring to make our first date epic?”
        Why it works: Flirty and imaginative, it gets them thinking about you two together.
      4. “If you were planning a perfect evening for us, what’s the vibe—fancy dinner or Netflix and chill?”
        Why it works: Playfully sets up a date scenario while gauging their preferences.
      5. “What’s your best quality that makes people fall for you? I’m taking notes!”
        Why it works: Bold compliment that invites confidence and a bit of flirtation.
      6. “If we were stuck in an elevator together, how would you keep me entertained?”
        Why it works: Cheeky and fun, it sparks creative, flirty responses.
      7. “What’s your go-to move to make someone smile? Hit me with it!”
        Why it works: Flirty and engaging, it encourages them to show their charm.
      8. “If you could steal one thing from my profile to make yours better, what’s it gonna be?”
        Why it works: Playful and interactive, it gets them to engage with your profile.
      9. “What’s the one thing I’d be surprised to learn about you? Spill something juicy!”
        Why it works: Boldly invites a fun or intriguing revelation without being too serious.
      10. “If we were a power couple, what would our nickname be? I’m thinking something iconic!”
        Why it works: Super flirty and fun, it imagines you as a team while sparking creativity.

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