Student Village | irebami | Activity https://studentvillage.com.ng/members/irebami/activity/ Activity feed for irebami. Wed, 08 Apr 2026 18:48:43 +0100 https://buddypress.org/?v= en-GB 30 hourly 2 4df22c46c53aa74b517eda03ed0664ab irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6954/ Thu, 19 Sep 2019 09:48:11 +0100 Probably they feel they have no relevance since they wouldn’t be needed financially which is like the most leverage men have over women. They might also feel they wouldn’t be respected. But men should be able to […]

]]> 0 6b83295e09e9b6dc8ebe5833756289e4 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6923/ Thu, 29 Aug 2019 11:22:58 +0100 Personally,i think the reason why our culture hold marriage in hight esteem is to reduce the rate of sexual congress with multiple partners and reduction of children with unknown fathers. It also gives a sense of […]

]]> 0 456e9f7cbeddbd332e39f922613e7ea6 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6813/ Wed, 14 Aug 2019 10:09:47 +0100 The mentality of the people that make up NIGERIA and upgrade their level of development in all aspects, that way the country would be better for the whole universe.

]]> 0 c1d578c084b1fc7f3e19015d42551023 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6795/ Mon, 12 Aug 2019 16:09:14 +0100 Well, I would say it depends… This a complicated question. If the truth being kept is for malicious reasons, that is not cool. But there are somethings we feel we could handle if we knew but it’s a lie, not […]

]]> 0 8622bc91f90b4ef23405f44b03e5c52a irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6733/ Mon, 05 Aug 2019 14:40:18 +0100 Yes, I believe it has. But when things are used in excess and out of balance, it becomes counter productive.

]]> 0 0b2214de07124e68e9dae7e751e878ad irebami asked a new question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6641/ Thu, 25 Jul 2019 09:56:43 +0100 When you become parents or as parents, would you lecture your teenagers on safe sex and birth control  or leave them at the mercy of their friends and internet? Even if you practice abstinence, you can’t expect […]

]]> 0 5adbe16ad69f3c690d767e55f839ffaa irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6424/ Wed, 03 Jul 2019 14:53:36 +0100 I pull people’s cheeks and I grin a lot. 😁😁😁

]]> 0 9aabfb43127fc565c4552ed550c8210c irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6334/ Tue, 25 Jun 2019 22:25:37 +0100 It depends on your definition of fornication… If you define two unmarried people having sex as fornication, then it is… If you look at with logic and devoid of religious sentiments, it depends on the mind set […]

]]> 0 3b1e38566165f8c7319d961ae1a22b1b irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6320/ Tue, 25 Jun 2019 08:12:03 +0100 As long as she isn’t invasive and intrusive, doesn’t try to compete with him for his time and affection, and they don’t have a past…. I would feel indifferent

]]> 0 19030684425baa25c5951f1a8fd328ea irebami asked a new question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6257/ Tue, 18 Jun 2019 22:36:55 +0100 I find it very annoying to be with people who have bad temper, it is so unattractive and makes me want to scream! I really don’t know how to deal with bad tempered people, my rule is if you shout at me or […]

]]> 0 91bdaa37b8e99039bd53d0540f99b5fa irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6202/ Wed, 12 Jun 2019 11:04:40 +0100 Stay true to your heart… When you do things you feel it’s wrong, that is when it’s a sin.

]]> 0 a14452fbddf13048d645867eeb98189c irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6189/ Tue, 11 Jun 2019 14:23:20 +0100 When you understand life, you can never be unhappy for long.. When facing hard times, I simply tell myself, honey, learn the lesson you’re being taught. Instead of being unhappy, I simply observe and learn.

]]> 0 8b8e7a55a4d6ec75073599c0043be6a2 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6175/ Mon, 10 Jun 2019 08:18:56 +0100 Lose the ability to lie, I see it as a good thing though, I would have no choice than to be honest, I wouldn’t have to paraphrase about how I truly feel about something to protect the feelings of others…. It’s […]

]]> 0 c2e0d8a906de4e189776fedbc6fc9f72 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6174/ Mon, 10 Jun 2019 08:14:44 +0100 For me, it’s all about sensing of remorse, if the person is not remorseful about the wrong thing they did to me and sorry was just said for the sake of saying sorry, it is only going to make me more upset. I might […]

]]> 0 3443215f39d2812a5b446d476799d5f8 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6118/ Wed, 05 Jun 2019 18:18:41 +0100 Hmmmmmmmm, indeed every child should be taught that. Some parents leave the male child out because organisation is a “feminine” thing to do. But he has go to learn there won’t be females to clean after his mess all the time.

]]> 0 d09d636cbfc181527aee9e3369885a9c irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6096/ Tue, 04 Jun 2019 10:32:21 +0100 For marriage You cheat, you get the boots. It shows lack of respect and consideration of my feelings. Sudden violence too.😣

For dating, apathy, cheating, bad temper, some other behavior I know I could never co […]

]]> 0 40c0dabde03da68707c012db46d50ca6 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6095/ Tue, 04 Jun 2019 10:18:31 +0100 I dunno if the question is directed to romantic relationships or general life affairs. But I would answer from both perspective.. For general life affairs, I do my things regardless of what people may think, if […]

]]> 0 0be8e6696689231fe486b55a3b288fda irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6080/ Mon, 03 Jun 2019 15:12:20 +0100 Yes, I can. One of the things that divide and separate us more in this world is religion.
Regardless of the religion my partner is born into, all I seek from him is open mindedness of not sealing the gates of […]

]]> 0 3215c81986da65754578e522b45c45dc irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6060/ Fri, 31 May 2019 11:07:23 +0100 I would treat other people’s stuff same way I treat mine. I don’t even like people handling my stuff,i get grumpy when it’s not treated well. And the annoying thing about people is if you express how you feel […]

]]> 0 4cb680decab0ae3e4dac15710ca88b0d irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6023/ Tue, 28 May 2019 23:59:25 +0100 Because they lack empathy and didn’t take into consideration of how it would feel to be on the receiving end. Empathy tames wrong actions, no matter how hungry and desperate you may be.

]]> 0 21c9b87e7841462fe88b781adbfb3aa2 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6022/ Tue, 28 May 2019 23:55:32 +0100 Fortunately NO. I try my best not to act on impulse and the consequence would have me apologizing. If I were on the receiving end of an impulsive action and I did nothing to deserve it, no matter the amount of […]

]]> 0 ae8463d18123c98f26364ed4cdc792cb irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/6021/ Tue, 28 May 2019 23:38:28 +0100 I call her a loving mother who wants the best for her kids… Her actions might be deemed morally wrong, but it is damn heroic…. The man who demanded sex to help the woman on the other hand should be called a […]

]]> 0 fa1332cc4d00cc657570e2677d439e10 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/5839/ Mon, 06 May 2019 07:51:13 +0100 Lack of patience and wanting to get things done quickly… Just like Seyi said, no one likes difficult things. Ironically, it’s in the difficult things we usually develop and acquire new virtures for ourselves. If […]

]]> 0 7f32df6a7c84ae312c98ff76c2d60f84 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/5765/ Thu, 25 Apr 2019 17:01:47 +0100 My funny Geography teacher, the school choir, press club and literary and debate club…… For friends, not really. I don’t get attached to people that much; we meet to part, we part to meet. Our friendship cycle […]

]]> 0 ffb864339fb6826e843c2a6d0462c4da irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/5727/ Sat, 20 Apr 2019 22:42:52 +0100 Nope, I didn’t vote; I had not a PVC. I didn’t get one because of busy schedule and negligence.

]]> 0 d94fa52c88af598a60439c66809d9521 irebami asked a new question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/5726/ Sat, 20 Apr 2019 22:40:01 +0100 The inability to trust someone could come as a big problem in relationships. I generally, absolutely do not expect anything from anyone because  I hate disappointment. Through reflection, I discovered the […]

]]> 0 4a693996f4a9c2aae66a5a12e9e3fcca irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/5725/ Sat, 20 Apr 2019 22:28:57 +0100 The bravest thing I’ve ever done would be doing a back lever split on iron bars, a lotus pose hanging from a tree, balancing on bars, chairs, tables and ledges, oh and a scorpion handstand. 

]]> 0 db588bdf1f84ecbc2efaea05f7302a55 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/5611/ Sun, 07 Apr 2019 01:38:45 +0100 I would say you should focus more on developing yourself. After each relationship, you should learn from them; I.e what you want or don’t want in a stable partner. The fact that your Ex bugging you makes an […]

]]> 0 a4f33386ad68d2e7c3dab8da12d1aed9 irebami asked a new question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/5376/ Tue, 12 Mar 2019 00:46:06 +0100 Assuming you got offered a job as a sales person to sell an expensive ineffective drugs that has placebo effect  to people with serious health problems. In the job description, you have to lie to make the drugs […]

]]> 0 5cffb99b8813da207a58071a29837cab irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/5124/ Sat, 09 Feb 2019 00:18:30 +0100 The problem with tampons is that you have to change them at most every 4hours..  Which I’m sure isn’t convenient it is recommended you don’t use them to sleep, and you are at the risk of having toxic shock if you […]

]]> 0 a8fa193ae9a7b7e20ce4f148ea2650e7 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/5123/ Sat, 09 Feb 2019 00:10:04 +0100 Some are just over confident about their puny persuasion skills 🙄🙄 or they believe you are playing hard to get. Both equally annoying. Thankfully, my irritated face is game! 

]]> 0 8ddd1e080f7621febf1298291e669f1d irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/5122/ Fri, 08 Feb 2019 23:58:57 +0100 After weighing this objectively, I’m not going to lie to you, you brought this one yourself by letting the impression of another man seep into you. If you want to drop the burden on you, tell your boyfriend. But […]

]]> 0 5e559466ec60f35ba92726fae77b6380 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/5059/ Fri, 01 Feb 2019 23:37:34 +0100 Oh honey, I admire your courage! My reaction can’t be accurate because I’m not affected but, I do understand the frustration. I do hope It gets called off soon.

For protesting… 😅 Lol no. I have not the co […]

]]> 0 42fc438baabca97ea94481f5413348f8 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/5016/ Sat, 26 Jan 2019 17:30:03 +0100 “G”? Uncle, you’re funny o. That would only inflict him with moral burden. Better to struggle with a clean unburdened conscience.

]]> 0 084b178533b1f2dd954a75bbaced4b57 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/5000/ Fri, 25 Jan 2019 23:25:54 +0100 You’re probably not that “close” with said friend. When you’re with your very good friends, most times are for goofing around.

In cases like this, just give them the “I ain’t kidding around, stop being […]

]]> 0 e0e8346e65cb5136ea3da654a926699d irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/4967/ Tue, 22 Jan 2019 16:56:37 +0100 When true love sets in, the thought of separation would never occur, both partners would face hard times together and come out of it with smiles on their faces. You would feel this person is your other half and […]

]]> 0 6727e5eb37096d490cb1e6c3358f7761 irebami asked a new question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/4936/ Fri, 18 Jan 2019 23:50:03 +0100 Would you rather be with a physically beautiful, but the type of Patrick star from Spongebob dumb partner, or a very brilliant and insightful but the type of troll from Merlin ugly?

]]> 0 305f7f8ee263c42968fdafa1c7bf6f99 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/4935/ Fri, 18 Jan 2019 23:42:29 +0100 I have a sensitive point of view on topics like this. There are some roles in organizations that needs a positive-stern-masculine energy, some need a negative-finer-feminine energy (I obviously don’t mean the […]

]]> 0 bd1bccb66c774381cd9b8dd0c83dc320 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/4934/ Fri, 18 Jan 2019 23:23:42 +0100 This is an easy one😁😁 the fact that you feel annoyed and frustrated shows you really care. If you care enough to do something about it, talk to the person and don’t hold anything back. I would never support you k […]

]]> 0 f075f8ce28be462a8c6fc2b09ff4f505 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/4933/ Fri, 18 Jan 2019 23:10:40 +0100 If it’s one thing I’ve learnt so far in my short existence in this life time when it comes to the feeling of life is turning against you is to observe the situation well. There must be a lesson that friend of […]

]]> 0 af08e4a431c25bcb03cbdf2dbc2f87ee irebami asked a new question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/4898/ Fri, 11 Jan 2019 15:19:56 +0100 Assuming you have a friend who usually invite you for outings, events or parties but your answer is always that you’re “busy”.

Later, you found out this friend of yours got married or celebrated something […]

]]> 0 58be548c29637fd14f14c04fbd40ac27 irebami asked a new question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/4856/ Thu, 03 Jan 2019 23:24:14 +0100 Money shouldn’t be our placebo effect for joy and happiness. How do you stay happy even when you’re completely broke.

]]> 0 23426cf0665ae1395d06906b7421785e irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/4855/ Thu, 03 Jan 2019 23:12:48 +0100 What a yummy course (if courses of study could be eaten). Psychology is a social science course but still needs biology. You could find out the combination necessary for the course for the institution of your […]

]]> 0 bced457c8fec5840deeca8efa219c8d3 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/4854/ Thu, 03 Jan 2019 23:08:25 +0100 Hnmmmm, honey, there is nothing you could do about that. the work lies with your boyfriend to try to get along with your best friend. if he gets to know him/her, he might change his mind about him/her. You could […]

]]> 0 25c0ed80b175248de7ed59b14b18d25f irebami asked a new question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/4826/ Thu, 27 Dec 2018 02:26:30 +0100 Should there be a guide on ways we should spend our holidays? For me, it was mostly sleeping, watching movies and reading (I try as much as possible to avoid my course of study related books, i always feel I’ve […]

]]> 0 54e30d53cfc357be1ab19ee34de0a209 irebami posted a new activity comment http://studentvillage.com.ng/stis-sex-and-the-student/#comment-2241 Thu, 27 Dec 2018 02:09:46 +0100 Even sharing a bottle with someone makes me cringe.

So may diseases spreading! The disease is the just consequence of the over stimulation of the sexual instinct.

May we not have a share in this terrible consequences. And if in one way or another we have done something to deserve it, may we receive the light to cast the burden off… Amen.

In reply to - wrote a new post STIs, Sex and the Student.   It has been noted that STIs are on an alarming rise in our higher institutions. A study conducted a while ago at the University of Abuja showed that 70% of […] ]]> 2e36a1804998fbb1bb5c1adddd7d7945 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/4813/ Fri, 21 Dec 2018 23:29:34 +0100 Personality all the way…. But I’m not going to lie, attractiveness matters too. But if you’re panties dropping drop dead gorgeous😋😍 but you have a rotten personality, it’s a no no. I’d be ashamed to be seen […]

]]> 0 c091f86ad5aaef900e5ed8a2aa8f20ab irebami asked a new question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/4792/ Tue, 18 Dec 2018 23:49:41 +0100 I strongly believe that what would would make anyone cheat are; covetousness, lack of love, lack of consideration, lack of self control, lack of decency, lack of respect and regards for the partner’s […]

]]> 0 032bc17da00a82ad170576ffb17b39b3 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/4784/ Mon, 17 Dec 2018 11:32:59 +0100 Oh yes! I’d say the earlier the better. It’s not nice to nurture Unrealistic hopes, you would hurt yourself more that way. If he likes you back, hurray! If he doesn’t, it’s best to move on. (if boys don’t like […]

]]> 0 bb8459fd47b24425fd7e42adec593250 irebami answered a question https://studentvillage.com.ng/activity/p/4766/ Fri, 14 Dec 2018 17:27:55 +0100 My answer could never be accurate, I wouldn’t even say I’ve been in a relationship nor have I ever been married thus, the experience to give a just answer is missing. But I will say this, if you are in a […]

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